[BM] Sebuah Risalah Pinangan Maya

بسم الله والصلاة والسلام على رسول الله

Assalamualaikum wbt,

Moga senantiasa keluargamu dalam naungan Yang Maha Pemurah & Yang Maha Penyayang.

Biar jelas, tulisan ini sememangnya ditulis oleh aku sendiri, dan ditujukan kepadamu.

Sebelum kau teruskan pembacaan, aku mohon agar kau baca bersendirian dan fahamkan terlebih dahulu sebelum kau hadapkan tulisan ini kepada orang yang kau benar-benar percayai.

Sejenis coretan yang tidak pernah dihantar melalui emel apatah lagi ditulis kepada sesiapa pun. Hairan juga apabila ianya dalam bentuk separa formal. Takut kelu lidah menuturkan, maka sudilah kiranya ianya dalam bentuk risalah maya.

Aku harap kali ini, perkara ini jelas antara kau dan aku. Terus, tulisan ini pada aku, sebagai suatu pertanyaan kepada tuan punya diri berkenaan dengan soal hati.

[BM] Review: Aku Terima Nikahnya (Edisi Istimewa)

Aku Terima Nikahnya [Edisi Istimewa] by Hasrizal Abdul Jamil
My rating: 5 of 5 stars
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Perkahwinan itu merupakan pengembaraan hidup yang penuh suka duka, liku luka, senyum tawa pasangan & keseluruhan ahli keluarganya.

Persediaannya bermula sejak akil baligh, malah berterusan sepanjang melayari bahtera baitul muslim itu sendiri.

Buku kompilasi trilogi hasil Ustaz Hasrizal ini, menutur zikir kepada sang anak teruna & dara yang kemudiannya menjadi sang suami & isteri dan kemudiannya menjadi sang abi & ummi. Zikirnya memperingatkan diri mendekati keredhaan Zat Yang Maha Mencipta.

Saya sarankan ia menjadi bacaan umum bagi yang ingin mendirikan rumah tangga mahupun yang sedang mengemudi bahtera perkahwinan ini. Mudah-mudahan, mengingatkan kita fungsi diri dalam institusi kekeluargaan.

[BM] Review: Suami Gay Isteri Mak Nyah: Nafsu Songsang Terlaknat

Suami Gay Isteri Mak Nyah: Nafsu Songsang Terlaknat by Mohd Khairul Anwar Ismail
My rating: 2 of 5 stars

Songsang tetap songsang, biarpun atas nama naluri, hak asasi, kebebasan. Untuk menyatakan golongan LGBT ini di pihak kebenaran, hakikatnya menjadi pelik pandangan tersebut kerana semulajadinya 'pasangan' adalah lelaki & perempuan @ jantan & betina.

[BM] Hajat Beradat

Dari kampung membawa ulam,

Pucuk ubi, kaduk & pegaga,

Dari jauh berutus salam,

Moga sihat diri sekeluarga.

Adat beradat berzaman lamanya,

Terkenal hingga negeri orang,

Hajat bermula dengan bertanya,

Sudilah kira berterus terang.

Indah corak si batik jawa,

Tema bunga daun beralas,

Warkah sepucuk hajat dibawa,

Moga isi terzahir jelas.

[Eng] Hearing aid

We do know what hearing aid is. The true purpose was to help people who are unable to hear sound which travels through air (this is important, as we could only use this medium to hear properly) due to his/her conducting and/or perceptive deafness.

As technology and urbanization evolves, we, the young generations has become the pioneer towards psychology and medicine (especially ENT) findings. We contributed to a great era by developing a new subtype of deafness of which we call 'Selective deafness' (other information about this is in here, here and here). 

Yes, we have made an opposite of usage of an aid by creating subtype of deafness which I would call it  Hearing Aid Relative Deafness, or HEARD. Before we continue, forgave me for all intentionally annoying puns I've made through out this article.

[BM] Review: Seharum Kasturi Putih

Seharum Kasturi Putih by Awisul Islah Ghazali

My rating: 3 of 5 stars



Pengalaman orang lain amatlah bermakna. Apatah lagi apabila seharian berhadapan dan berhubungan dengan pelbagai ragam jenis manusia. Pengalaman para pengamal perubatan yang termuat dalam buku kecil ini, sedikit sebanyak membuka seribu satu persoalan minda buat masyarakat kita di Malaysia. Meski tema berkaitan dengan isu kesihatan, namun selitan isu penting kita sering lupa antaranya isu ketentuan Ilahi, isu kemanusiaan dan cabarannya, isu kenegaraan dan kedaulatannya.

Tak dinafikan, wujud juga ramai orang jahil ilmu keduniaan, apatah lagi ilmu agamanya sendiri. Apabila wujud sikap bodoh sombong, makin banyak kesilapan berulang. Akhirnya masyarakat 'jahiliah' kembali semula dengan isu moral dan aqidah.

Moga coretan penulis ini difahami dan diselami dalam jiwa pembaca dalam usaha meningkatkan peribadi dan pemikiran rasional masyarakat kita di Malaysia ini, khasnya buat para Muslimin.



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[BM] Review: Denyut Kasih Medik

Denyut Kasih Medik by Farhan Hadi Mohd Taib

My rating: 4 of 5 stars



Sebuah coretan yang baik oleh penulis. Pendedahan awal buat bakal doktor muslim mengenai kerjaya mereka di Malaysia kelak.

Perkongsian menarik mengenai Sunnah & hukum-hakam mengenai perubatan serta isu-isu berkait dengan masyarakat kita di Malaysia mengenai akidah, pengubatan, amar makruf nahi mungkar, wanita & kekeluargaan.

Tolak tepi isu watak utama terlalu sempurna, kerana itu yang setiap muslim dituntut mencapai yang terbaik dalam urusan keduniaan & untuk akhirat.

Saya cadangkan juga buat sahabat bukan Islam andai juga meminati novel melayu & kerjaya kedoktoran.



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[Eng] Art of Listen, Respect & Understand

It is a wonderful world indeed. There are a lot of people from different background. We come from various clusters of age, sex, language, race, culture, religion, country, education level, socioeconomic status etc.. In other words, this diversity teaches us rules of listening, respect and understanding.

I am totally an idiot if neglecting these most important key in gaining myself knowledge or even as an human being. So, I'm writing this one to make myself clear.

[Eng] Sustaining Measures (part 3)

This one is the the continuity of the previous entries I've wrote regarding marriage issues (1st & 2nd). I'm not writing these articles to promote unmarried life for mankind, but to think how nowadays this holy matrimony has change into further despair for some of us (and I'm included). Marriage has become difficult in many ways, despite the Prophet Muhammad SAW has mentioned not to.

For those who think that I'm not married, then your guess is correct. Still, that doesn't mean that I wouldn't. Anyhow, these are my arguments whenever the topic of hindrance in marriage comes to mind.

4) Money is Everything

Some might disagree with me in this part with their own sense. I'm not saying that marriage are causing bankruptcy, nor giving hardship to sustain domestic economically. But the fact we're living in a place where money puts priority before others. Yes, rezk is from Allah, but it doesn't come served to you with any cherry-on-top. The most important thing is to work ourselves for it.

[Eng] 'The Green' Contraception (part 2)

The first two of main cause in 'contraception' by marriage has been discussed here. Shall I remind you again, my explanations regarding these methods criticizing people who disrespect this Institution.
Thus my second post this time, will revolving around the marriage life of any couple which prevent conception and expansion of their family members.

3) Loyalty of Cheater, Brings Out the Green Monster

Okay, stop picturing the thin green stuffed frog from Sesame Street. That
monster is hug-gable. Perhaps you could bring him out if you use it to cuddle when you cry. Please, not the Big Green Muscular Beast who crushes everything in his path while saying his name and what he is doing out loud. Unless that beast is what will comes out when you are angry. More over, why on earth would you use them for a method?

[Eng] Marriage as 'good' contraceptive method (part 1)

We've seen that the world population has suffered from mass-media-caused dilemma downgrading the most sacred constitution in human circle of life. Whenever a family or married couples has internal problems, it will go public as matter for discussions.

From early marriages, young-old couples, polygamist even divorces becomes hot news in that damn box and paper. I'm not referring this marriage topic in a positive point of view this time. I'm criticizing the people who made marriage straying out of its norm course causing it to be a 'good' contraceptive method.

Therefore, before I start to spewing my thoughts around, remember this, according to a research: In order for any culture to maintain itself for more than 25 years, the fertility rate should be more that 2.11 children per family. If anything less, the culture will decline. Historically no culture ever reversed at rate of 1.9, while at rate 1.3 it is impossible. As an example, if two sets of parents having a child each it is equal to half number of the first generation. The next generation in the line will only be 1:4 related to their grandparents.

[Eng] Can Islam Legalize Same-Sex Marriage?

The issue of rampant homosexuality among Muslims in Malaysia increased. To claim that they are Muslim, while suggesting 'Same-Sex Marriage' with 'Valid Nikah' (Legal Vows). But they forget, in the Al-Quran, Allah has said this act is beyond bounds & invite bad consequences in the family institution even though they said they would engage be in accordance with Islamic Family Institution.

This article describes the 'Gay Marriage Muslim fallacies' with evidence from Al-Quran. This is just a preparation to face the changing world to argue to that people who think that way.  I wish that we could motivate these people to leave their bad deeds in so to reach Allah's Grateful Blessings.

The fallacy of “Islamic gay marriage” 

[BM] Pendekatan Dakwah Selari Dengan Mainstream

Ada sebahagian dari kita tak suka dengar orang lain tegur dia kalau dia buat salah (baca: dosa). Apabila menegur, dikatakan menjaga tepi kain orang lain, kubur masing-masing, dosa pahala Allah tentukan. Kalau begini jawapannya, sampai bila ISLAM nak masuk dalam orang yang macam ini (lebih-lebih lagi menggelarkan diri muslim). Diri sendiri yang menyekularkan agama sehingga berani kata, "bila sampai masa nanti akan bertaubat kelak". Yakinkah diri itu akan hidup pada sesaat yang kemudian?

Memandangkan golongan muda kini lebih gemar pendekatan hedonisma, maka penegur-penegur (baca: pendakwah) ini cuba memasuki mainstream mereka dengan pendekatan lagu-lagu supaya dapat didengari & menyedarkan perbuatan sia-sia itu. Antara lagu-lagu mainstream yang telahpun berjaya diperdendangkan di corong-corong radio bagi menjayakan kempen kesedaran kepada remaja-remaja ini.

[Eng] Islam, Anyone?

Invitation To Understanding Islam
www.iLuvislam.com
dihantar oleh : hankypanky
editor : everjihad

HOW MUSLIMS DRESS?

Allah makes a natural covering for all His creatures but not for His best creation: the human being. Instead, Allah tells us why and how we should clothe ourselves. Then Allah leaves us to choose whether to obey.

True Muslims always choose to obey Allah's commands.

The Noble Qur'an says:

“O children of Adam! We have sent clothing to you to cover the shameful parts of your body and to serve as a protection and decoration; but the best clothing is the clothing of piety” [7:26]