[BM] Adat Merungut

Aku merasakan diri aku berada dalam satu komuniti yang amat suka merungut. Ya, SUKA MERUNGUT. Tulisan kali ini juga hasil didikan dan propaganda yang mungkin telah lama diterapkan dalam hati serta minda dari orang-orang di sekeliling aku.

Mungkin kali ini seolah-olah berlaku kontradiksi dengan entri yang lepas. Saban tahun aku tak pernah kisah bila kawan & bukan kawan untuk berkongsi sesuatu. Sama ada cara datang itu memang dirancang, ataupun sambil-sambil ber'kedai kopi'. Cuma sini aku nak bagi tekankan terdapat banyak jurang perbezaan antara "bercerita", "perkongsian", "minta nasihat" & "merungut". Semestinya aku benci yang terakhir itu.

[Eng] As a Muslim, What will you do?

When someone questions Existence of God then challenged part of your religion teachings, what will you do? Should you react calmly and tries to explain in a good manner or would you throw away everything that you have learn and blatantly accusing for blasphemy?

Ever since there was the social media technology present, whenever this type of issue (re)surfaces, the most common path that the commenter chose was the latter.

Quiet  recently, my email notification brought me back to my old place of debate to such matter.
This particular person whom I have made discussion (I prefer this term more than 'debate') with left me this:

I missed this part of your reply.. and "When the Judgement day come, pray that the judging is done by The God we believe in".. now, that's how all of us should think, that's how peace are made. That's what some of us have been telling the world, but some "groups" are too damn dumb to understand, and too effing self-centered to accept the reality.. I wish you well my friend. For i hope you're sincere, then this world would become a better place. As i said before, "Open your heart", and you did..

[BM] Penguasaan Bahasa Tertier

Baru-baru ini dalam laman sosial, saya banyak mengetengahkan aspek penekanan penguasaan bahasa dalam kebanyakan komen kepada isu-isu yang berkaitan.

Antara isu yang saya ikuti adalah 'pendidikan awal menggunakan Bahasa Kebangsaan atau Bahasa Inggeris', 'Sekolah Vernakular', 'PPSMI' dan 'Bahasa Ilmu Dunia'.Memandangkan kebanyakan isu tersebut mempunyai perbahasan yang panjang lebar dan melibatkan dasar pendidikan negara, saya ketepikan dahulu perkara-perkara tersebut.

Kita cuba fokus kepada isu 'Bahasa Tertier'. Lihat situasi dalam kartun manga di bawah ini. Apakah yang boleh kita kaitkan?

Team Medical Dragon: I do not own the copyrights of the artwork

[Eng] 'The Green' Contraception (part 2)

The first two of main cause in 'contraception' by marriage has been discussed here. Shall I remind you again, my explanations regarding these methods criticizing people who disrespect this Institution.
Thus my second post this time, will revolving around the marriage life of any couple which prevent conception and expansion of their family members.

3) Loyalty of Cheater, Brings Out the Green Monster

Okay, stop picturing the thin green stuffed frog from Sesame Street. That
monster is hug-gable. Perhaps you could bring him out if you use it to cuddle when you cry. Please, not the Big Green Muscular Beast who crushes everything in his path while saying his name and what he is doing out loud. Unless that beast is what will comes out when you are angry. More over, why on earth would you use them for a method?

[BM] Aku Si Gagal

"Sungguh melayu pantang dicabar. Pantang lagi bila dikutuk dikeji." Ehem, dah selalu sangat dengar ayat ini, tapi, jauh-jauh boleh kot cakap macam ini, bila dekat-dekat takut juga. Sekadar intro untuk entri kali ini. Insyallah berkait dengan kejayaan kita di muka bumi Allah ini.

Siapa tak benci bila diberi gelaran yang kita tidak suka. Macam-macam gelaran boleh kita 'terima'. Hodoh, muka buruk, pemalas, sombong, dengki, lembab, kuat merajuk, katak, penguin, tikus, pendek, gemuk, boroi apa lagi nak? Tapi boleh lagi kita beri toleransi untuk sebahagian perkataan tadi, mungkin atas sebab 'menghampiri' sifat yang ada pada diri. Saya tekankan perkataan "sebahagian", biar jelas.

Bagaimana pula jika 'sifat' yang terpalit pada kita itu adalah kerana satu kegagalan yang kita hadapi?

"Woi, budak gagal"

"Ek eleh, dapat E, ko tengok aku, A siot"

"Dah terhantuk baru nak tergadah, baru padan muka kau"

Pantang sungguh bila diri digelar 'si gagal' oleh orang lain. Mau tidaknya, bukan hari-hari kita gagal. Entah-entah untuk isu itu hanya sekali sahaja kita rasai. Jadi, buat apa perlu saya hairankan kalau mendapat sekali dua kegagalan dalam mata pelajaran sebagai contoh. Adakah ianya merangkumi kegagalan diri saya sendiri dalam seluruh kehidupan?

[Eng] Marriage as 'good' contraceptive method (part 1)

We've seen that the world population has suffered from mass-media-caused dilemma downgrading the most sacred constitution in human circle of life. Whenever a family or married couples has internal problems, it will go public as matter for discussions.

From early marriages, young-old couples, polygamist even divorces becomes hot news in that damn box and paper. I'm not referring this marriage topic in a positive point of view this time. I'm criticizing the people who made marriage straying out of its norm course causing it to be a 'good' contraceptive method.

Therefore, before I start to spewing my thoughts around, remember this, according to a research: In order for any culture to maintain itself for more than 25 years, the fertility rate should be more that 2.11 children per family. If anything less, the culture will decline. Historically no culture ever reversed at rate of 1.9, while at rate 1.3 it is impossible. As an example, if two sets of parents having a child each it is equal to half number of the first generation. The next generation in the line will only be 1:4 related to their grandparents.

[BM] Derma Organ Bagi Yang Telah Meninggal Dunia

A) Penjelasan Fatwa Malaysia secara umum (tanpa artikel perbahasan):
1) http://pmr.penerangan.gov.my/index.php/component/content/article/252-pengetahuan-am/7610-pendermaan-organ-menurut-perspektif-islam.html
2) http://zaharuddin.net/fiqh-ibadah/183-hukum-derma-organ-gugur-janin-a-brain-death.html

[BM] Hudud: Tangguhan Kerana Kefahaman?

Artikel asal  ditulis oleh: Tuan Guru Nik Abdul Aziz Bin Nik Mat

Sukacita saya merujuk kepada laporan akhbar Sinar Harian (23 & 24 Ogos 2012) yang membicarakan persoalan hudud, terutamanya apa yang dibangkit oleh seorang ahli parlimen PAS dan seorang lagi mantan mufti.

Bagi saya tidak ada asas hukum dan keperluan atas dasar logik untuk melengah-lengah pelaksanaan kerana hudud adalah sebahagian daripada perundangan syariah yang diwajibkan dalam Islam. Ini kerana tidak ada hukum atau undang-undang di dunia ini, sama ada di bawah sistem demokrasi mahu pun komunis yang menunggu rakyat faham dan setuju dulu, baru dilaksanakan.

[Photo/ BM] Haram Buatku, Bukan Mahramku

Pertemuan sesama keluarga, sanak saudara & sahabat di musim perayaan bagi seorang muslim juga memerlukan adab pergaulan yang tertentu. Antara perkara yang selalu kita terlupa (terlepas pandang) adalah adab bersalaman sesama lelaki & perempuan. Siapa yang perlu kita bersalam, siapa yang boleh kita bersalaman & siapa yang tidak perlu kita bersalaman?

Dua gambar rajah ini saya ambil di Facebook yang memudahkan pemahaman kita batas pergaulan sesama muslim di satu-satu majlis keramaian, insyallah moga memberi peringatan buat diri & sesiapa yang membacanya.

[Eng] Your Beautiful Smile

I'll be happy to see the smile of my parents throughout the day. It shows that they are still living a happy life. Might there be some frowns and grunts, but as long as it doesn't involve another family members, I would say it will pass as the bitter sweet of life as we goes on.

Harmless but contagious

While family & close friends gives sense of happiness in between us, it has almost similar to one that we doesn't even know. Whenever I walk-by someone and saw they smile (whether as a compliment, polite attitude or unintentional) it provides a reflex sense of appreciation. Thus you smile back.